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Facing an Existential Crisis or, Attending an Artist Residency During a Pandemic
We were sitting in unstained Adirondack chairs, our feet in the Gihon River. My new friend, Victoria Sottosanti (Read her work!...
Aug 21, 20204 min read
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The World Needs Your Art Right Now
"I just don't know if my story matters during a global pandemic," one of my students said this week. She's writing a poetry collection...
Aug 1, 20202 min read
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Biting Off More Than You Can Chew
I've done it again; I've way oversubscribed myself. I'm going to a two-week writing residency at The Vermont Studio Center and I've given...
Jul 24, 20204 min read
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How to Beat Imposter Syndrome
“The beauty of the impostor syndrome is you vacillate between extreme egomania and a complete feeling of: 'I'm a fraud! Oh God, they're...
Jul 16, 20203 min read
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Being Politically Correct Isn't a Bad Thing
Trump criticized the Washington Red Skins FINALLY considering changing their unbelievably offensive name (for financial reasons rather...
Jul 10, 20203 min read
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Reaching Out
It's not easy to ask for help. It can be hard enough to even acknowledge that you need it, much less find and reach out to someone who...
Jul 6, 20206 min read
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Holding Two Truths
I was talking to a friend this week who was having some issues with her partner and feeling conflicted about it. She felt guilty for...
Jul 3, 20202 min read
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What It Means to Need
"There are things you need that I can't give you," my then-boyfriend-now-husband told me when he suggested I see a therapist for the...
Jun 27, 20204 min read
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Choose Kindness
The other day, a girl I grew up with and hadn't spoken with in a while reached out and asked me to help out her dad. His tailor shop's...
Jun 19, 20203 min read
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What Do We Do with Our Racist "Friends?"
I went to high school with these twins. They liked to torture animals then tell me about it in great detail during pottery class, trying...
Jun 12, 20206 min read
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Can We Condemn the Artist and Still Love the Art?
"Rebel Rebel" was a frequent play in my mini-van in high school. I loved "Labyrinth" as a child and I love it still. The day after Obama...
Jun 8, 20204 min read
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This Grief Belongs to All of Us (As Does the Responsibility to Do Something About It)
Our nation is on fire. Violence, anger, hate: this isn't new. This country was built on the backs of black people and continues to rely...
Jun 1, 20205 min read
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You Don't Graduate Therapy
When I was in my early twenties, I finally sought out a therapist for the first time in a decade. I had seen a lot of therapists when I...
May 25, 20205 min read
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It's OK to Mourn What You're Missing
The whole world is grieving right now. 317,180 deaths worldwide. 3.8 million Americans have lost their jobs. Life as we know it has been...
May 18, 20204 min read
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Happy Nala Day!
On May 3, 2013, two things happened that would change my life: we adopted our first dog and my mom fell down the stairs. Dylan and I had...
May 3, 20207 min read
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Finding Community While Social Distancing
On Saturday, on my way to a local brewery to pick up beer curbside, I saw six teenagers hanging out next to the covered bridge in town...
Apr 27, 20205 min read
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Signing Off
The workday and down time don't look that different anymore; we're just home. So, how do you know when you're done with the day and ready...
Apr 18, 20202 min read
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The New Normal: Finding Routines Amidst Chaos
For people who struggle with mental illness, routines are essential. Having familiar steps can help you organize your thoughts, reduce...
Apr 11, 20204 min read
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How are you really?
"How are you?" I ask my therapist over Zoom. Sometimes I ask how she is when I enter her office, but mostly, it's just a formality. Now I...
Apr 6, 20202 min read
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Cooking through a Crisis
This is a difficult time for us all. But those with mental illnesses are particularly susceptible to negative effects of isolation,...
Mar 30, 20205 min read
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